After the show we caught up with Moran and Chelsea, the daughters of Melani. They described the perfect man for their mother.
Nothing wrong with being picky for the right reason just don’t look so boring and dry and looking like you are not interested in being with who you are with wasting people time but I just took it that you was nervous and uncomfortable because it didn’t feel right for you. So give them a reason to sweep you off your feet.. you give alittle, they will give a little.
Now I got that out the way Melani what you need to do is ask your self are you truelly ready to move on to a wonderful someone else life. If so my OPINION is some of the things you used to get your husband use to find your future. Don’t talk bout your husband but how he made you feel bring that to looking for your future and it is not comparing current men to your husband but the joy of how you felt with him the happiness you felt with him bring that. Talking about him you felt alive spunky happy and that is what you need to look at. When they ask you what you look for in a man you should have said you love to laugh, dance, good conversation, fine dining, romance etc.. I say all this because that is what I see in you on t v. that is what you should have brought out in your conversation and descriptions when you looking for a man. Try it you might get what you want. GOOD LUCK!
Hi Steve honestly there is not a perfect man on this earth but GOD. He created us to be like him and we keep failing at it but we do not give up but there is someone out there perfect for you. Now the impression I got from Melani is she is afraid of the unknown, scared to move on to God knows what, afraid to start over because maybe she do not know how because she been away from dating for so long and it has changed so much good and bad depending on the generation. The blogs may be hurting her alittle but she looking at it as therapy and informative but she is half informative. She is making like dating is not durable almost like pulling teeth out and not saying how enjoyable it can be good or bad. you are meeting different personally and it is not all bad but people do not want to be wrote about whether good date or bad date. Dating is hard as it is and that’s one reason she can not get a date because of the block and telling them how many dates you been on. Either they will look at you as something wrong with you other than you are moarning or that you will make them apart of your blog test no one wants that because that is there pride on the line for doing online dating, their emotion on the table, their feelings put out there to not know how you will deal with it. I’m all for being honest and all but she is revealing too much information that will turn men off. if they ask you tell alittle about your self she telling to much bout the blog and her husband not about what she enjoy to do, what are her interest, what puts a smile on her face. That’s what she need to do.
Pretty bad when you set a man up with a Non-Chicago lady..really sad,when American women are not good enough.?..
Hello Steve, Milani is trying to please everyone else now. I am in her shoes at this time. My soulmate my husband and I got back together in 2009 and was hit with panceas cancer on July 31, 2012. We are dealing with chemo now and financial situations to where we can’t travel like we would like on the good days. I, like Melani could not live my life without him. GOD gave us great men and we are thankful. Keep her in prayer and don’t judge her, you are NOT in her shoes.
My perfect man will not be perfect – because nobody is but he will be perfect for me. I would like a gentleman who is not afraid to drive the process and who will step up to the plate and be sure of what he wants. I can’t stand all this wishy washy stuff you get these days. It’s always murky, you never know what’s going to happen next, even when you had a great time on a date…. I think people like to keep their options open, even after they’ve met someone of substance – those that do this, will always lose in the end…
Wow….100+ dates in one year, lucky her! I haven’t dated anyone for ten years, and not by choice. @Phyllis, maybe we should contact Steve and see if he can help us ).
Stop the blogging and get serious but do not forget to laugh and enjoy the journey.
Melani is a witty, beautiful, and obviously a very caring woman.
Don’t tell everybody the fine details of how many dates that you have had since whatever date. Start with finding common interests without sharing all the intimate details.
Instead of looking for the “Perfect Man” (which she will never find) she needs to look for a man that she can relate to first as a friend then see where that goes. Once she filters out the “bad candidates” she can then focus on the “good apples”. Then worst case, she ends up with a great man friend.
Nevermind… Come to find out this lady is married now.
Was an interesting story on Steve Harvey’s show today.
what is the name of her blog?
I have not been on a date in years. I am divorced after 25 years of marriage. My last resort is online dating. I see Steve helps out a lot with women like me. I am over 50 years old and haven’t dated in Forever. My perfect man is my age but looks like Will Smith. I like someone who would make me laugh, like to travel, likes music and most important a Christian.
I’m not perfect,..but about close as you can get! I could put a few sparks in her life, she’ll think it’s the 4th of july everyday.
I personally know all 3 of them and Mels story. This is definitely not just for her blog. She is a wonderful and beautiful woman who deserves to find someone. She is simply helping the women that are looking as well.
Melani is HOT!
I have to agree, Travis, that Milani isn’t really interested, she’s just gathering material for her blog. That was a really nice guy (she even admitted that). Just because there no “spark” doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun together, and see what develops. Steve, don’t waste too much time on this one.
Mlani’s dates are just part of her job with no real intentions of finding true love. If I was Neil I would have politely gotpupgrade and left the table. Would have had more fun looking at fish at the pet store.
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