Are you a sport fish or keeper?
It’s not the guy who determines whether you’re a sport fish or a keeper – it’s you. When a man approaches you, you’re the one with total control over the situation – whether he can talk to you, buy you a drink, dance with you, get your number, take you home, see you again, all of that.
Not all men are looking for a keeper
Revealing that you’re a keeper is no guarantee that the guy won’t just walk away. Some men really are just sport fishing and have no intention of doing anything more than throwing back the women they bed. If this is the case with this man, then let him walk – what do you care?
“When we’re considering whether to get into a committed relationship with you, we’re thinking about what our house will be like, whether you’ll be a good mother, if you’ll be able to handle the finances and make sound decisions. You should be evaluating us in the same fashion.” – Steve Harvey
“Nothing on this planet can compare with a woman’s love – it is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, generous and sweet and unconditional. Pure.” – Steve Harvey
“If your man loves you, he’s willing to tell anybody and everybody, “Look, man, this is my woman” or “this is my girl,” “my baby’s mama,” or “my lady.”